Choosing a Wedding Venue Part 2

Once you’ve managed to sift through the huge number of venues available and whittled them down to a selected few, it’s time to visit each venue.

If you are getting married in a church or registry office, it’s a good idea to drive from there to each of the venue’s at the desired time to get a feel of the distance and traffic.

Once you get to the venue, you want to ensure that as we discussed before that they have ample parking if guests are driving, alternatively there is space to drop everyone off at the door. Do you have to cross grass or anywhere muddy that you may have to put a cover over?

Try to imagine yourself as a guest and do a walk through of where you anticipate everyone being, check for:

On Arrival

  • Where they would place presents?
  • Is there storage for their coats/hats/bags/umbrellas?
  • Does it flow nicely to the drinks reception so there isn’t a bottle neck?

Drinks Reception

  • Where would the drinks reception be held?
  • Is there enough space?
  • Is there appropriate amounts of seating?
  • Where are the toilets? Is there disabled access?
  • Is it outside? Is there a wet weather contingency?
  • Is there a bar area or will one have to be ‘created’?

Wedding Breakfast Room

  • What’s the layout like? How will the tables need to be laid out?
  • Will everyone be able to see the top table and speeches?
  • Will everyone be able to hear the speeches, a mic may be needed.
  • What’s the ambience and lighting like?
  • Is it appropriate for you theme?
  • Is there enough space but not too much?
  • Can you get air into the room or keep it warm enough?
  • Will you be having any entertainment? Is there enough space/ electrical sockets for them?
  • Will you need additional decorations/lighting to what you had anticipated?
  • Where will the catering and bar area be served from?
  • If you are having a buffet, or a sweet area, is there enough space (remember queues)
  • Where will you have the cake and cut it?

Into the Evening

  • Will the Wedding Breakfast room be turned into the ‘Disco’ Room? If so where will the guests convene in the interim?
  • Check that there is appropriate technical capabilities for all evening entertainment, as well as space and if outside a cover for them.
  • Is there a quieter area for those that don’t want to dance to sit, relax, chat?
  • Where will you put your wedding book?
  • Where will you put any other entertainment e.g. photo booth
  • What time does the evening have to finish?
  • Does the venue have any restrictions with regards to noise levels, entertainment you may have e.g. fireworks, lanterns?
  • If having an evening buffet, canapés, where will they be served?
  • Where will the bar be?

Some venues may not have all of the appropriate facilities, equipment and utensils as they are not set up for weddings so you need to check the following in case you need to hire them or additional.

  • Lighting
  • Bathrooms
  • Cleanliness and neatness of the premises and its employees
  • Ambience
  • Hygiene of food service
  • Odours
  • Emergency exits
  • Parking for guests
  • Décor
  • Number of waiters per diner
  • Courtesy of the staff
  • If guests will be outside, is there a covered area for rain?

If a venue doesn’t have everything you want, or anticipated, it doesn’t necessarily mean you can’t have your wedding there, it just means you need to work around what they have.

I hope this has helped, if you need any more info or guidance please do feel free to drop me a message.

Jo xx

 

Choosing a Wedding Venue Part 1

When starting the search for the perfect venue for your wedding/reception it’s very important to consider a few things first:

Theme

  • Does the venue suit your theme? E.g. Castle vs Country House

Facilities

  • Does the venue have the required facilities for the type of wedding you imagine e.g Does it have a garden for an outside wedding?
  • If you are having part of your wedding outside? Is there a contingency for wet weather?

Location

Some people will get married and have the reception in the same venue, but if you are having 2 separate venues you will need to take into account the distance between each venue.

  • Consider providing transport between venues if it’s a diving distance away. You could put on a coach, red London bus, a fleet of cars or taxi’s?
  • If the guests will be driving themselves is there ample parking at the venue?
  • Be realistic, how far away are the venues and what will the traffic be like? You don’t want the rest of your day delayed because you or your guests are stuck in traffic.
  • Is it walking distance? Remember women in heels! Also, consider the time of year, will it be snowy or wet? Do you need to provide umbrellas to the guests, should they bring wellies…?

Accommodation

  • Is there accommodation at the venue or close to the venue that your guests can stay at? Check availability before you book anything.
  • Look at the rooms and ensure they are up to standard and you have enough.
  • See if you can get the rooms in the wedding package, and/or any discounts on local accommodation.

Once you have whittled your venues down to about 3 or 4 it’s then worthwhile visiting each of the venues and taking with you the checklist of items in Part 2.